Accepting Happiness

In the Name of Allah (God), The Embodiment of Love in a Living Being, The Noblest One, The Healer of Wounded Souls,
The Mender of Broken Hearts

Learning to Love Again pt 10

Accepting Happiness

As-Salaam-Alaikum,

I am forever grateful to Allah to have experience this journey of Love because through the pain, and turmoil I have learned to be happier than ever before. The parody in this apparent oxymoron is that our emotional perspective of our love experiences will undoubtedly define in the future for us the capacity for us to discover joy, and happiness in our future relationships.

When I started composing my first article, I marked my first year anniversary being divorced. It was a starting point to access the damage that had been done to me and how I was determine to find a reason to smile inside again. Every one of us has to regain and discover the root of happiness within ourselves and find an outlet to express our unique creativity that will release our emotions in a positive productive manner. We have to paint the reasons God Loves us on the canvass of our countenance, transforming our innocent smiles into divine affirmations of aptness and purpose.

Before we can ever learn to love anyone else or ourselves properly we have to learn why Allah (God) loves Us in the first place? What made us so special that Allah (God) would pattern our seemingly mundane genesis after His own Self-Creation in the womb of triple darkness? Why would He imbibe us with a specific combination and ratio of His attributes unique only to our soul’s imprint? Finding out Who we are in relation to God Himself requires us to thoroughly examine our physical, mental, and spiritual attributes in the light of our Creator’s purpose for giving us life.

Have you asked yourself lately what do you like to do and why do like to do it? What kind of impact do you want to have on people-your friends, family, classmates, colleagues, and peers? Can you write down 10 reasons why God loves you right now? Discovering the reasons why we can love again and should love again starts with us breaking through the fear, and self doubt that prisons our emotions from expressing happiness.

If I may base my definition of love from the Honorable Elijah Muhammad teachings, Love is the freedom to be justified expressing our purpose as to become equal with everything in Allah (God’s) creation. Learning to Love again removes the selfish, egotistical, view of love that is conditional of the satisfaction of our needs and evolves into a divine outlook and expression of God’s Spirit that attracts and extracts the best part in human beings whenever it contacts them. Well what is the best part of people? In women it is her feminine nature that passionately and freely surrender’s her will to do the Will of Allah (God) to become His reflection of Righteousness, Beauty, Wisdom, and Mercy in an exquisite form irresistible to Man’s nature . In Men it is their masculine nature that submits humbly to Allah’s Will to manifest and become a conduit of His Wisdom, Beneficence, Power and Sovereignty as Khalifah, or Vicegerent.

The best part in us is our Gifts, Interest, and Likes that exude our Divine purpose. When we are Learning to Love Again we acknowledge the poor part of ourselves but we are choosing to settle on the best part of ourselves and others that brings us closer to God in character and speech. Accepting our happiness is accepting that part of us that brings us joy and excitement in life. When we do what we love we attract people that will inevitably love us for being ourselves.

Well how do we know we can ever find true happiness and love in someone else again? In a simple but powerful word-Faith. But faith must be strengthen with pray, fasting, and positive thinking. People who believe and say that there are no good men and women out there are right because they will never attract which they don’t believe exist.

The possibility of Love must germinate like a seed in your heart to blossom into the fruit of our desires. Our faith in the Source and Bestower of Love is the rope that carries us through patience and with perseverance. With Allah’s (God) help it will be that constant conscious thought of doing His will and Purpose design for us that He will bless us with a helpmeet eventually to aid us in His divine Plan. The possibility of Love manifest once there has been closure and rebirth in our lives. Although closure is commonly consistent of two people absolving and concluding their relationship and purpose for being together, its success is only contingent on its seekers to completely atone him or herself of all misdeeds major and minor inflicted and sincerely appreciate any and all positive influences the person has had on our lives. A sign that we are approaching rebirth is when our new encounters with people is now indicated by our unconditional attempt to learn and accept people for who they are with no expectations and requirements for their future roles in our lives.

Dating is discouraged from this process because it hampers genuine communication without expectations. An exercise of purposeful comrade through patient diligence plants the seeds of friendship far better than superficial displays of taste and class.

I pray that my words have touched all of us to desire to learn more on how to love again that will free our souls to experience the felicity of a mended heart. I promise you that if you try to learn to love again properly your fear of disappointment and heartbreak will disappear and you will tap into the infinite abundance of divine love that is in each and every one of us and that is more potent in our hearts than conditional love ever was.

This article bookmarks a chapter in my life that has witness pain, self-examination, and growth. With the Help of Allah my friends and readers I feel free now to tap into a new well of abundance, joy, and happiness that has sprung forth through my journey to learn to love again personally. I thank every kind word, warm greeting, and unexpected phone call I received from my friends that cheered me up to continue on this quest. I will with God’s Help, publish this series in the form of a book so I that I may continue to proselytize loving in a manner that transform us into Living Expressions of Divine Love, Peace, and Happiness.

If you have any questions or comments feel free to contact me directly at littleelijah@yahoo.com or you may comment on my blog with feedback.

Your brother and Friend,
Jameel Muhammad
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